♪♪ Let's talk about sex, Baby. Let's talk about you and meLet's talk about all the good things and the bad things that may be♪♪ Haha I bet that got your attention. Anyhow I seriously want to cover this because it's something that comes up in conversation whenever I bring up my abuse history. It's … Continue reading BDSM and baggage
Here we go again, starting like I think every single one of these things does...with a whole lot of self reflection coupled with a bit of an update. I dont honestly even remember where I left off. Was it before my bday or after? I feel like it might have been before as I know … Continue reading Maybe it’s me?
I think life, and society, operates on some sort of a pendulum; swinging constantly from one extreme to the other. I think we're on a swing back to the patriarchy and I dont like it. It's taken me a good while to try to compose my thoughts on this because, like everything even a little … Continue reading Metoo, Mentoo and the Mob
I saw a quote today that struck home: "Broken women know how to love but not who to love, broken men know who to love but not how to love" Now if combining those two isnt a recipe for a toxic disaster then I dont know what it. Sadly I think these sorts gravitate towards … Continue reading Love is just a word between addict and manipulation
It’s weird how some people just gravitate towards each other. And others repulse like magnets no matter how hard you try and force it. Of the two guys I’ve tried to date this year. One was my typical bad boy choice, the dragon we’ll say, the other was the proverbial knight in shining armor. Both … Continue reading Chasing dragons, burning knights.
So Ive been obsessing, as I tend to do, trying to figure out exactly what Im doing wrong in terms of this whole dating thing. That's twice in a single year Ive tried and failed miserably in the attempt to form any sort of connection with someone. The common denominator is me so I assume … Continue reading Calculated Risks
Lets talk about my man choices for a minute as I seem to be a little stuck on this right now given my recent bought of nonsense with Mike. Ive never made good choices. Save one and I even let him go. Going back to what amounts to the beginning of my dating life my … Continue reading Fuckboi’s and failure